You're on a date, it's pretty early in the relationship, and you haven't yet discussed sex. Maybe you've already had sex and maybe you haven't, but you still haven't actually TALKED about it. How do you break open that conversation of "this works for me" or "that really turns me off". How do you introduce a kink to someone who might not be into that sort of thing? What if you've got some body image stuff that you really hate to talk about but it can make intimacy go all sorts of wrong if it doesn't get acknowledged? Are there mismatches that can be worked with and some that are deal breakers? How do you know if you're going to be compatible?
Lucky for you we, here at V&V, revel in talking about really awkward stuff. We would love to break it down with you and give you some tips on how to have that vulnerable conversation with someone you might not know very well.
If you're brave, bring a first date. We promise not to put you on the spot.
Panelists: Jamie Brazell, M.Ed., LMFT, Sex Therapist and Rev. DiAnna Ritola
Host: Heather Edwards, Pelvic PT