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V&V EXTRA: When Sex is an "OUCH!" (and you don't want it to be)

Vino & Vulvas pelvis

"... but everyone said it would hurt the first time... when does that stop?"

"His penis is just too big. I'm very small down there."

"I just try to get through it and not say anything because I don't want him to cheat on me"

"I just can't relax since the unwanted experience"

"Since I started taking T, my vagina is not as comfortable as it used to be"

Did you know that 3 out of 4 cis gender women have reported feeling unwanted pain with sex at some point in their lives (and we don't know the stats for trans/nonbinary folks with vaginas)? That's a lot. Enough to make people feel like it's normal if they bring it up in conversation with friends. But guess what! There are teams of professionals that deal with this. Want to meet them and hear what they have to say after years of working with people who have pain with sex? 

This is a special V&V (in addition to our regularly scheduled August event) and we are damn lucky to have Tracy Sher, MPT and CEO of Pelvic Guru and Sher Pelvic Health and Healing on our panel. Tracy in an international pelvic health instructor and pelvic physical therapist. She is brilliant and dynamic and will be an absolute joy to have on the panel. Additionally, we have Chelsea Wakefield, Ph.D, LSCW, AASECT Sex Therapist in town to joint this panel! For those of you who attended V&V back in 2015-2016, Chelsea was a regular on our panel until she moved to Little Rock to head their department for relationship counseling. She is the author of In Search of Aphrodite and Negotiating the Inner Peace Treaty and is full of truth-bombs to drop in any conversation I've ever had with her. They will be joined by our local sexual health superstar, Aleece Fosnight, urology PA-C, AASECT certified Sex Counselor and Educator. If you're looking for a conversation about painful sex that will bring the knowledge from all angles... this is where you want to be. 

Tickets for purchase here. Tickets are $15 and are available online or at the door (cash at the door, please!). If you attended Pelvic Guru Boot Camp in Greenville, SC Aug 17-19, your admission is FREE! Also, (as always) if you really want to be there but can't afford a ticket, just send V&V a message and we'll help you out.

This event will be at UpCountry Brewing in West Asheville. Full menu and bar provided throughout the entire event! 

Panelists: Tracy Sher, pelvic PT, CEO of Pelvic Guru (; Chelsea Wakefield, Ph.D, LCSW, AASECT Sex Therapist; Aleece Fosnight, urology PA-C, AASECT Sex Counselor and Educator (Extended bios HERE)

Host: Heather Edwards, pelvic PT, Sex Counselor and Educator, V&V Founder

Earlier Event: July 30
Tantra and Sacred Sexuality